Saturday, June 27, 2009

Was Joe Jackson 'responsible' for Michael Jackson's death?



MJ is dead!

Joe Jackson is asking the question, 'How did my son die'? For me, the question posed by Joe Jackson is loaded with irony?

It will take a few weeks for an autopsy report to confirm the 'cause' of MJ's death - which means for the next few weeks the media will speculate and spin, conduct interviews and investigations contemplating various scenarios in the attempt to answer the million dollar question: What was the cause of MJ's death?

I would like to suggest MJ died a long time ago? Without being cynical, the answer may be closer than we think and may have nothing to do with what the autopsy will reveal in a few weeks

Consider excerpt from Wikipedia describing Joe Jackson (father of MJ)

"Jackson's image as a father was tainted throughout the late 1980s through the mid 1990s in which the media reported stories told by some of his children that Jackson was abusive towards his children. When he managed his family, he ordered each of them to call him "Joseph", which led to several siblings being estranged from their father. In 2003, in an interview for BBC TV, Joseph admitted to using physical punishment on his children and also voiced his disapproval of homosexuality. Michael Jackson claimed that from a young age he was physically and emotionally abused by his father, enduring incessant rehearsals, whippings and name-calling, but also contends that his father was a strict disciplinarian that played a large part of his success. In one altercation — later recalled by Marlon Jackson - Joseph held Michael upside down by one leg and "pummeled him over and over again with his hand, hitting him on his back and buttocks." Joseph would also trip up or push his male children into walls. One night while Michael was asleep, Joseph climbed into his room through the bedroom window. Wearing a fright mask, he entered the room screaming and shouting. Joseph said he wanted to teach his children not to leave the window open when they went to sleep. For years afterward, Michael suffered nightmares about being kidnapped from his bedroom. Michael first spoke openly about his childhood abuse in a 1993 interview with Oprah Winfrey. He said that during his childhood he often cried from loneliness and would sometimes get sick or start to vomit upon seeing his father. In Michael's other high profile interview, Living with Michael Jackson (2003), the singer covered his face with his hand and began crying when talking about his childhood abuse. Jackson recalled that Joseph sat in a chair with a belt in his hand as he and his siblings rehearsed and that "if you didn't do it the right way, he would tear you up, really get you."

What say you? Was the Neverland ranch, webster infatuation, surgeries etc a testament to the child rearing techniques of an abusive father who saw his children as assets to be marketed and not gifts to be nurtured and trained?

Some may argue all of the musical genius we've enjoyed somehow outweigh the methods which led to the accomplishment of such a feat, but i beg to differ. What did it profit the king of pop to gain the notoriety of the whole world and yet lose so tragically in the end?

What say you? I'm not interested in playing the blame game but creating a space where genuine and thoughtful conversation can occur on the issue.

Ralph

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Beraca Baptist Church
9602 Flatlands Avenue
Brooklyn, NY 11236

Guest Speaker:
Rafael Castillo

Title Message: "When the mission is 'closer' than you think"

Service Times:
9:00AM
12:00PM

Thursday, May 07, 2009

Memorable 1st visit to the new Yankee Stadium







Food at Yankees stadium - $85.00

Roundtrip train fare to the stadium - $8.00

15 hours with Nicky Cruz, Willie Alfonso & Bible study @ Mariano Rivera's home - Priceless!

Friday, May 01, 2009

next up...

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

ACTS Session #6 Video Log

Life...on the stoop!

Recently on Twitter

+ yanks and mets gettin in on monday night baseball. gotta love picture in picture.

+ easter monday: no phone, hannah montana flick w. fam, pfchangs, golf galaxy...good day indeed!

+ 4 brothers have convened!

+ cousins gone wild @ grandma's was awesome. easter baskets, money, food and Jesus who keeps us all together. home w. more company.

+ I have to be up in 3 hours! good night/morning!

+ home office - still on the grind!

+ corey has ear infection in both ears!

+ had to rush our corey to the dr. - seems he has bad ear ache.

+ you can't hoot w. the owls and night and soar w. the eagles by day. It was great hooting w. the owls last night.

+ lee and the kids are settled in at home. out w. the boys! antincipating a good night indeed!

+ slow start today...starbucks on my desk courtesy of the big kahuna. 2 meetings down and a bunch to go! we go hard!

+ thanks to gil and johnny for rockin w. me tonight. you guys were a huge help to me.

+ good day in the office. lecture was great! I love the classroom. no place like home!

+ another afterschool whirlwind comes to and end. on last batch of cookies for class party and madagascar 2 w. lee & boys.

+ My 21 hour day comes to an end. Wednesday's lecture is set. 'The Project Management Collision' @ The Kings College @ 6:30PM. Shalom!

+ 'what does it take to make you chop/chop? Maybe in the face of this weight will make you chop/chop'! - Ambassador

Saturday, April 04, 2009

State of the Month



Wednesday, April 8th
Topic: Project Management (*original topic was changed)
Guest Lecturer: Ralph Castillo
sponsored by the Latino Leadership Circle



Friday, April 17th & Saturday, April 18th
Battle Cry New York City @ The IZOD Center
Battle Cry Masters of Ceremonies (emcees): Ralph Castillo and Katy "Oraia" Coffman



2 Days - 4 Messages - 1 Series

Saturday, April 18th & Sunday, April 19th
Speaker: Ralph Castillo

Saturday @ 7:00PM - Four Letter Word #1
Sunday @ 9:00AM - Four Letter Word #2
Sunday @ 11:00AM - Four Letter Word #3
Sunday @ 1:00PM - Four Letter Word #4

Christ Tabernacle
64-34 Myrtle Avenue
Glendale, NY 11385




Tuesday, April 21th - Friday, April 24th
Shift Conference hosted Willow Creek Community Church, Barrington, Ill

Palm Sunday Meditations

Rejoice greatly, O Daughter of Zion!
Shout, Daughter of Jerusalem!
See, your king [a] comes to you,
righteous and having salvation,
gentle and riding on a donkey,
on a colt, the foal of a donkey.
Zechariah 9:9

Matthew 21:1-11
Mark 11:1-11
Luke 19:28-44
John 12: 12-19

Friday, March 27, 2009

My Lil Sis - guest blogger



An ode to my big bro…

After reading your blog about Pastor Durso, I thought to myself that I've been selfish for very long, by not thanking you for all the wonderful things that you’ve been to me. So here it goes...

1. thanks for putting my diaper on backwards when mommy wasn’t home.
2. thanks for taking family trips with me to the seaport when I was young.
3. thanks for being the man of the house when one was absent.
4. thanks for taking me to nyu.
5. thanks for saving all my baby teeth in a small yellow envelope.
6. thanks for teaching me to tell the water to “get out my way, im coming through” as I learned to swim.
7. thanks for being a big brother to nani & i
8. & a great son to mom.
9. thanks for taking that one last move as a family to 64th place where I still lay my head to sleep.
10. thanks for letting me know that a prodigals son story is great, but greater is the story of the one who has always kept the ways of the Lord...even if i didnt follow through.
11. thanks for leaving me that book when you married lisa & you couldn’t be here.
12. thank you for my wonderful and beautiful nephews & sister in law.
13. I love aaron & corey, but I was the original “champ” ;-)
14. thanks for your early morning prayers .
15. id like to wipe all the tears off of your face that you’ve ever cried because of me.
16. thank you for always loving me regardless of the mess i made.
17. if you always do what you've always done, you will always get what you've always gotten.
18. you're still my BEAN JELLY
19. & I LOVE YOU!